The Usual Stuff. Well as it says above, I am 36 and male. I am heterosexual and a Top or Dom depending on who I'm playing with. Not quite a scene veteran, but certainly active in it for over seven years. I attend most of the Munches held in Scotland and occasionally some south of the border. Clubs I attend as and when the mood takes me, though most of the clubs in Scotland have seen a fair few appearances from me as well as the odd club in England. Being self employed does leave me with a lot of free time and the ability to travel. I class myself as a friendly sociable guy, and whilst I have some good friends in the scene, I am always willing to make more. Let's get this out the way before we go any further. I am married with . My wife is aware of my participation in the scene, and whilst she is not interested in taking part in that aspect of my life, we do have a strong loving relationship. My wife and are part of who I am, just as much as the scene and what that entails. The simple truth is that I need both. If you are not comfortable with this, then I suggest that we are not compatible and that you move swiftly on. Warts and All. Now for the bit most people skip, things that may well be considered flaws by others. I like to be in control of a situation. I am potentially when it comes to non-scene stuff a little set in my ways. I'm not 6'2” with the perfect physique either, but then not many of us honestly are. I can come over as being quite aggressive at times if I'm talking about something I feel strongly about, and I've been told that I'm stubborn, though I'm not going to admit if they are right or not! I can also hold grudges, but I try not to, especially if all apologies etc have been made. Something which I'm not sure if it's good or bad is my tendency to be protective of my friends, it can mean that I make take dislikes where I wouldn't otherwise bother, but yet it's a good thing too... Possibly the biggest wart is the snap decisions I sometimes make about people, the instant likes and dislikes. Playtime. Although the list on this page gives an idea of what I'm into, it isn't an exclusive list and I am open to trying new things although needle play is not likely to be on the menu as are a few other things. I tend to prefer mild to moderate S&M, sensation play and bondage. The mental and control aspects of play are also a large part of where I gain my enjoyment from and I would be interested in trying pony play at some point, though not as the pony ;) Other interests. I like my creature comforts. You're unlikely to find me camping out in the North of Scotland in winter. Instead I enjoy eating out and pubs where you can have a conversation without shouting, I rarely drink alcohol thus if I go to a pub it's either to meet friends and be social, or to steal some quiet time, have lunch, and read a book. Loud music and noisy social venues isn't my cup of tea for the afore mentioned reasons that said if the noise is all screams and whimpers... In short I'm looking for. A relationship with someone who is either submissive or at least open minded about trying new things and willing to accept my situation at home. If you want to discuss the contents of my profile or anything else for that matter, drop me a memo. [The mind is like a parachute, it only works when open.”Frank Zappa

My Ideal Person My ideal person would preferably have a pulse and be between the ages of 25 - 45, I know what everyone says about looks not being important but in my case this really has little bearing if the personality is right.

I want a relationship with someone who wants to be submissive, not some someone who wants to act submissive so they can be tied up and hit. Also I want someone who prepared to follow rules, and yet not a door mat, ideally you would be self sufficient and have a mind of your own and doesn't mind sharing their opinion, even when it may not be wanted lol.

Most importantly though is someone who can accept my situation at home.

Well you did ask

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Do you really care lol.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Me and two women, one domme and the other sub, use your imagination
folks B)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not really, they would likely be boring

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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