I start with no agenda other than to learn, discover and accept what comes from that. Can I make something unique and special with someone? I am more bad than good, more naughty than nice, not Prince Charming, more a Shrek. I have a battered cover, but, would you dismiss the contents? I will be honest, sometimes brutally so and expect the same in return. I have been described as a dominant, sensualist, discover what that means for yourself my profile gives clues. I have no preconceptions and would be happy to find a friend or more, open and happy to talk, if you will take the chance. I am comfortable in my own skin, in what and who and what I am, I want to enjoy life, it's pleasures, and of course a risk now and again to add that little zest. Not shallow enough to only look at the surface but seeking the person within. Food, drink, music, laughter, a little pampering to your mind and body, and if we get that far I have learned that patience, understanding and a slow hand can lead to some kinky, erotic times. I am artistic and imaginative. I do seek someone real who wishes to explore, but if your preference is just to talk, learn from each other , enjoy the experience and see where the journey goes, that would be good also.

My Ideal Person Ideally I would love to find a woman for erotic chat or email, discreet relationship, 1-on-1 sex, bondage & discipline, miscellaneous fetishes, sadism & masochism or other 'alternative' activities. She should have a sense of humour, intelligence, curiosity and open mindedness. Someone without prejudices on age, colour or religion, who would like to discover if we have anything worth pursuing and take it from there. I do seek a lady who wishes to experience my kind of sensual domination, and will be willing to express her deepest desires in the knowledge that these will be taken into account. I will respect you, please also respect yourself. Someone who knows sexy is more what is in her head than in her underwear. Is not seeking to change her life or mine, merely enhance it with something attentive and imaginative. I am easy to talk to and find . What I am NOT looking for are directions to a CAM show or SITE, please don't direct me there. I make no boast other than a willingness to give 100% to both our pleasures, mind, body and soul. I am me, and make no apology.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Queen, Matcbox 20, Depeche Mode, Apocolyptica and to many
others to mention

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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