I am married. I say this at the first because I do not want anyone thinking I am trying to sneak something by them. I don't do that. Why am I here? After 30 plus years, sex has become an ABC thing (Anniversary, Birthday, Christmas). I have tried, but I can make no headway on fixing things. "Be happy with what you get" is her response when I try to bring up the subject. So why don't I leave? I'm not rich, but I have done OK. I am too old to lose everything and start over. So, I bought a membership to AFF. I'm not even sure I know what I want, but I do know I am bored with not only my sex life but life in general. I want a little excitement. I am not wanting to see how many different women I can bed. That's for the younger guys. I prefer quality, not quantity. As for me, I am clean, discreet and have been told I am handsome. I worked in a high risk job for a number of years and developed a great sense of humor (it helped relieve the stress. Being older, I understand what it means to be a gentleman. So...I sure would enjoy talking with some folks. I hope to hear from some of you!

My Ideal Person I'd love to meet a clean, discreet woman or perhaps a couple. It would be good to be able to be friends and not just FB's.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, might try anything that excites you.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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