My fortune cookie said that it is a good time to make new friends. It's true. I'm at a point in my life where I can't have co-workers as really good friends, and I have not been intimate in over a year. My feelings are starting to get hurt by the lack of attention that I get from the opposite sex. I am not horrible to look at. I have nice skin, pretty hair, decent teeth. Of course I'm chubby, fat, obese, whatever you want to call in. It's not something that I'm proud of, but not exactly ashamed either. It's just another fact in my life that I to keep under control, or at least under 200. And, with fatness comes a little loss of self-esteem. I don't let that affect my daily dealings either though. I am usually very pleasant to be around. I work hard, take care of myself & my home, I have certain goals in life, I don't smoke, I don't abuse drugs or alcohol. I have a good family. I like to travel. I get pedicures and I keep the gray out of my hair. I'm 5'2, with green eyes and brown hair. I am looking for a man. He should have a sense of humor about himself and life. He should enjoy going out and being around other people as much as he likes staying in. He should have a job that supports his lifestyle, which is hopefully fairly normal. He should be single and close to my age. As for looks...almost anything goes, as long as he is clean and takes care of himself. However, super clean cut military types are what I am most attracted to. I don't think I am looking to get married, but if I fall, I fall. It has happened before and I am sure it will happen again. I just want to touch the back of a man's neck again, feel his warmth on a cold winter night, and be around someone who is fun. Sex is off the table until he can prove that he can treat me with courtesy and respect and not like a blow-up doll. If you are interested, send me a message