My wife and I have been married for a number of years and she's the most important thing in my life. But with work, , travel, schedules, yadda, yadda, yadda, we don't have as much time for each other (or focus for each other) as we'd like. This is why we decided to open things up and we're actually closer since this decision. I'm a highly educated, professional with a job and a business on the side. I'm athletic and am an avid runner and swimmer. Despite all of these activities, I still try to plan a little time for fun and I'd love some company.