Welcome! I Guess I'll Start Off By Telling A Bit (Maybe A Lot) About Myself. I Was Born In Toronto/Hamilton Region And Moved Around Canada And Midwest Of The U.S. About Every 2 To Three Years Living In A Different City/Province/Country. I Finally Have A Homebase For The First Time In My Life And Less Of A Constant State Of Chaos. Growin' Up Will Do That But Moving Around Makes It Even Worse. I'm Very Optimistic About Life But Now I'm Starting To Be Optimistic About Myself. Never Been Outside North America But Would Love To Travel And See The Rest Of The World As Soon As Possible. I'm A 27 Year Old Guy, Blue Eyes, Brown Hair Except For On My Face Which Is Red, 240 Pounds, 6 Feet Tall, And Currently Residing In Hamilton,Ontario, Canada. I'll Be Quick In Starting Off With The Somewhat Dry Facts And See Where I Go From There. But As In Life, Once You Get Me Started It Takes A While To Stop . OK, I'd Have To Say That I Am A Highly Sensitive/Emotional, Intelligent Bisexual Male (If I'm Gonna Be Open And Honest About Myself). I May Be Somewhere On The Autism Spectrum Because I Scored Very High OnI Only Recently "Came Out" As Someone Who Was Physically/Sexually Attracted To Both Genders But I'm Almost 100% Positive It Is My True Self. This Self-Identity Thing Is Kinda Confusing. It Was October 2003 That This Revelation Occurred And Even Though It Happened Under Somewhat Complex/Chaotic Circumstances (Anxiety, Depression, Medicated, School, 2nd Time Back To College Full Time Or Part Time Since Leaving/Postponing The Previous Year Of School Due To Medical/Work Ethic Difficulties. I Am Quite Confident It Was The Correct Decision Though. The First "Event" Was A Bit Difficult But Surprisingly Natural And Cathartic. It Was Directed Towards A Generally Receptive And Safe Crowd Of A University/College LGBT (Pride Central) Group During Some Open House (Funnily Enough During National/International Coming Out Day} [Around Mid-October I Think]. It Just Sort Of Happened That Way. The Hardest Part About It Is I Wanna Be Just Like Everyone Else And Like Everyone And Be Liked But I Am So Different Sometimes And Have Some Radical Ideas That It Polarizes People. So I Hide That I Am Bi A Lot Of Times Except For Online Or I Don't Get Into Conversations That Could Be Confrontational In The Least. I Have To Start Saying My True Views And Staying True To Myself Even If It Offends Or Other People Can't Handle. Overall I Have To Be More Selfish Because I Have Been Suffering Inside By Acting Like I Am Someone Else Or Am Invisible.Anyway's... "Hi Everybody?", I'm Nick. Not To Be Confused With Dr. Nick Of "The Simps" :-) My Nickname AbootBrutus Comes From Being A Canadian In Iowa (Saying Out Like Oot With An Atlantic Canada Accent)+ Soccer Nickname Due To Lack Of Aggressiveness In High School Soccer And It Being Ironic. At Least I Think That's Why. Could Have Reminded Someone Of A Guy Named Brutus. Doubt It. Anyways. I Like How Putting Them Together I Can Make The Question "What Aboot Brutus?". I Don't Like Being Left Out. So Call Me What You Want. Brutus AKA Nick AKA Me. I Am Currently Battling Social Anxiety Disorder (Extreme Shyness/Fear Of People) But Am Beginning To Get/Feel Better (With The Of Help Zoloft) But I Feel Like I'll Be Drug Free/Vegetarian/Vegan Within About A Year Or Two. But I Keep Saying That. Or At Least That Is The Updated Goal Since A Couple Months. I'm Enjoying New Social Interactions With Them Being Only Somewhat Superficial With A Desire To Develop Acquaintances Into Friends. I'd Say This Has Only Consistently Happened Pretty Much For The First Time In My Life (Not Counting The First Eight Or So Years Of My Life). Working At A Grocery Store As Stock Per And Facer/Organizer Albeit For Minimum wage, For About The Past Year Has Helped Dramatically In My Path Towards My Long Awaited Goal. Decent To Stable Mental/Physical Health. Currently Unemployed But Will Probably Go Back To School To Update My Knowledge About Computers. Web Design Certificate From Local College I'm Gonna Beat This Thing. 8-) . I'd Almost Given Up Hope A Couple Years Ago But I Think I Was Having Difficulty Understanding The Precise Problem. Finally Figured It Out. I'm A Virgin Who Has Never Been Kissed Or Had Anything I'd Really Call A Date. Maybe Once Or Twice In The Year And A Half I Was At University Inconsistently But Nothing Too Significant. Maybe One Guy And Two Girls But It Was Just Gradually Becoming More Peral Or More Clear About What The Relationship Was. Mutual Understanding Was There That We Were Friends But I'm Pretty Much Devoid Of Experience In The Regard Of Relationships And Friendships Of Any Intense Nature.. I'm Just Starting To Understand What I'd Like To Have In A Friend So Going Past That Stage Of Having No Friends/Dates To Many Friends/Dates Immediately Is Highly Unlikely. I Guess What I'm Saying Is That I'm In Search Of A Like-Minded Per(s). An Honest, Sensitive, And Playful Per I Feel That I Could Easily Or At Least Peacefully Create A Seamless Transition Of Having Those Traits Be The Same For A "Friendlier Friend", Friend, Lover, Or Boy/Girlfriend. 8-) I Love Sports And Being Canadian That Of Course Includes Hockey (On Ice Preferably). Fave Team Is Montreal Because My Dad Is From Their And Then 2nd Is Vancouver Because I Grew Up Their And I Went To Quite A Few Games With My Dad. Soccer Is Another Sport That I Could Play For Days And Days. American Football Is Okay But I Prefer Football/Futbol/Footy (Internationally Known As Football But I Call It Soccer Because I'm North American. Just A Tidbit Of Info For All You International People Out There. ;-) I'm Big Fan Of Barcelona (Europe), Toronto FC, Manchester City (England), Nicolas Anelka, Edgar Davids, Cobi Jones, Owen Hargreaves, And National Teams Of US, Canada (Hopefully They'll Make It To The Next Men's World Cup), And England. Both Men's And Women's. Just For Anyone Who Is Curious. Not So Much England's Womens Team. Some Of My Favorite Memories Of My hood Are Of Just Kicking A Soccer Ball Around By Myself. Sometimes With Friends And Teams Though. Loved British Columbia For Soccer. That Playfulness That Comes Out When I Can Relax And Just Be Creative Or Silly Is What I'd Like To Have In Other Area's Of My Life. I Love To Just Go For Walks And Feel The Cool Wind Against My Face And It Would Be Even Better If I Had Someone I Could Talk With Or Even Just Walk Next To Them Silently. I'm A Very Open-Minded And A Sensual Per But Right Now In The Present Stage Of My Life I Haven't Felt That I've Been Able To Explore This Huge Part Of Me Adequately. Thanks, 8-)

My Ideal Person I Am Looking For A Partner Who Is Offensive And Not Politically Correct. Someone Direct And To The Point. Kind, Sensitive, Open Minded Person(s) Who Is Willing To Invest Some Time And Have Some Patience With An Inexperienced Virgin. Never Been Kissed And Would Like The First One To Be Special. In No Hurry To Have My First Experience (Kiss Then Sex Most Likely Timeline For Your Info). But I Know That It Could Be At Any Time. I'd Like It To Be Under My Terms Though. I'd Prefer It To Be With Someone I Am In A Relationship With But If I Feel A Connection With The Person Spontaneously/Impulsively That Would Be Fine Too. I'm More Of A Cautious Person Than Spontaneous One But I Can Be Both As Well Switch Between The Two Quite Frequently Paradoxically. Whether It's Romantic Or Just Fun I Feel Like The Person I'd Want To Be Intimate With Would Be Someone Who Is Respectful And Playful Towards Myself And Other "Creatures". Emotional Is What I'm Trying To Say. I'd Want Them To Have A Near Constant Awareness Of Whether The Other Person Is Comfortable Or Having Fun. Communication Is Key And With Constant/Frequent Communication I Think I Could Experiment And Feel Good About Doing Almost Anything With Someone Doing It This Way (Within Reason) [Safety And Otherwise]. Groups Are Okay Even Starting Out As I Wouldn't Mind My First To Be A Duo Or More. If Married Or Attached Consent Is A Must. No Cheating With Me Is Basically What I Am Saying. I Would Like Someone Who Loves Body Contact And Someone Who Can Make Any Touch Sensual If At All Possible. A Hug Or Even A Smile Can Be Much More Romantic Or Erotic Than Nudity If It's Sincere Or Spontaneous. I'd Say I've Been Somewhat Deprived Of Human Affection But Not So Much As To Be Detrimental To Myself Permanently. To Sum It Up In What I'm Looking For I'd Have To Say A Sweet Snuggler. But Not Too Sweet.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Moby, Barenaked Ladies, Outkast, Eminem, Matthew Jay.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Anal Sex Between 2 Females And/Or 2 Males. With Me Personally In A More Submissive Role. Preferably In A More Intimate Setting Than Aggressive And Frenetic. Open Relationship With Explicit Communication/Direction. Safe Sex. Prep Time Before To Create Buildup And Anticipation. Multiple Positions With Favorite One With Penis In Between Stomachs Parallel To Bodies In A Sandwich Like Missionary Position. Casual Yet Intense. Athletic And Fun Participants. Ice And Lotions/Creams. Long (Day Long Or Hour Long) Sex Fun. Relaxing After With Some Snuggling, Cudddling, Relaxing, And Possibly Communication About Positives And Negatives.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kirsten Dunst. #1 And 4.
Andy Dick. #1.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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