I really love the woman I have grown up to be, outgrown ideology. I know what I like and am not afraid to ask for it or take it. When I find something I like I tend to stick with it. I crave adventure, and do not fear dissapointment. My libido is outsized and I tend to show it off. I have an open mind, but am not a fool. I trust and people trust me with good rea. A bit of a misfit, but nobody knows it. I have many close friends that swear they know me, they do not. I have been burned but hold no grudges. Three quarters of a ten foot closet is full of black suits, but I re color. I'm always involved in a project either at work or at home. I like to be at the head of the pack, otherwise the view is always the same. My toes and finger tips are always painted some shade of red, I think you just move better in color. If I am not wearing lipstick I'm on my death bed or in the morgue and the makeup artist hasn't been in yet. I dress fashionably, always wear high heels and I re stockings with garter belts. Mmmmm! Actually I love wearing black lace corsets or black spandex slips with stockings and 6 inch black patent leather peep toe pumps. A girl should always have some interesting costumes! I never leave the house with out "Le Baisier Du Dragon". Any man clever enough to know what that is automatically gets extra points! I don't consider myself high maintenance, but if you are looking for a chick in sweats and no makeup...move on; I am not your girl. I won't always do what you say and hate to be bossed, but I will comply sometimes. I am a strong minded woman, it's part of my charm. I want a man who is sure handed, footed and not afraid. Do you think you have what it takes to surprise me? Is life still a great adventure for you? Living in the present is everything, remember; these are the good times. I am a toucher! I'd rather apologize than ask for permission. I love the 4th of July, it's one of my favorite holidays! I love the orange jelly bean. I own a chain saw and know how to use it. I stay up late! I like scary movies but I am afraid to watch them by myself. I expect a kiss when we meet. I dress up for halloween, keep the garage dark, play spooky music, carve really cool pumpkins and love to scare the crap out of the little s! I have the complete collection of Frank Zappa in vinyl. I red Janis Joplin. My new best friend should be smarter than me and funny. He loves and respects his mother. He cares about himself and his home. He really loves women and can't imagine life without one. He is not self absorbed or defined by his money. Spend alot of time telling me about your sports cars and homes on remote islands and I loose interest and become glazed over. Like me he is independent and ambitious. Neither one of us wants domination; however, he must take the lead. I want a man that can coax an unexpected yes from me. He should still like spur of the moment silliness or travel. He has social graces and says "Thank You" when he has recieved a ness! He has strength of character, a warm heart and a romantic "BONE" in his body. Generous, not selfish! I still want to be swept away; sometimes! We are all searching for the same thing...a passionate lover to be witness to our life. Looking for someone to play with, for now, don't want to keep them. I am a gorgeous lipstick redhead, nicely maintained. A strong minded fem that would like a challenge, but not a pain in the ass. I can tone down my strength and play submissive as well. Clean, drug free. No disease. Love to play with women as well. [COLOR red][/COLOR][bling 162191]

My Ideal Person Men 33-45 seem to really make me crazy...they do some voo doo that older guys just don't get. After being married for 26 years+ I thought I have seen it all, but i guess not.

I am not looking for Mr. Right, but rather Mr. Right now! I want a returning player....not just another notch on the headboard. I will meet for a drink first....don't expect to be invited to my home sight unseen. Please no eager 20 year olds, I won't respond. Once biten, twice shy!

A study conducted by UCLA's department of Psychiatry has revealed that the kind of face a woman finds attractive on a man can differ depending on where she is in her menstrual cycle.

For example: If she is ovulating, she tends to be more attracted to men with rugged good looks and masculine features. However, if she is menstruating or menopausal, she tends to be more attracted to a man with duct tape over his mouth, a pair of scissors lodged in his chest while he is lit on fire.

No further studies are expected.
FYI: Red is menopausal.



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Le donne desiderano essere amate non perche' sono graziose, o buon, o essere allevate bene, o grazioso, o intelligente, ma perche' sono essi stessi.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sitting in my lavish hotel room sipping champagne and still
in shock over my good fortune. My ball gown hanging on the
bathroom door, a gorgeous crepe taffeta low cut number
I picked up at Neiman Marcus in an amazing shade of eggplant
the very week the engraved invitation arrived at the house.
It actually sounds silly when I tell the story. I have been
writing the incoming President this same charming letter
dating back to the Carter administration. Congratulating
them on their amazing win as well as asking for an invitation
to the Presidential Ball, which only seemed fitting to
me as my birthday falls on January 20th Inauguration day.
Who knew six times would be a charm, not to mention an historical
landmark in our nation’s history. When I opened the beautiful
ivory invitation with the presidential seal I was as giddy
as a school girl on her first date. I knew Obama was going
to win this election the day I watched him on Oprah and she
begged him to announce his run for the office on her show.
He was so impressive that day, I ran out and bought two copies
of his new book….The Audacity of Hope. That was two years
ago; even now sitting in the hotel alone preparing myself
for this momentous occasion I have to pinch myself to know
it’s real. The dress, my gorgeous Manolo Blahnik shoes,
the tiny Judith Lieber handbag, the diamond necklace and
matching tennis bracelet (a last minute surprise from
my parents to mark the 58th birthday of their beloved daughter)
all details culminating into the making of an evening I
shall never forget. <br><br>
The limousine will be here shortly, I take one last look
in the full length mirror as I spray one more mist of The Kiss
of the Dragon before going down stairs. I do look amazing,
Oh Gawd this dress is to die for and it’s fabulous with my
red hair. <br><br>
The short ten minute drive to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue
gave me butterfly’s in my stomach as I chatted nervously
with the driver. We arrived in a long line of limousines
with so much pomp and ceremony; the driver opened the car
door and extended his hand to assist me from the car. <br><br>
What happens next...... and don't rush it.....i know i am going to get fucked
but i want this to be the fuck of my life. Who are you? The ambassador
to New Zealand? The Senator from New York whose wife is pregnant?
The head chef from the white house kitchen that bumped into
me in the hallway? Make it good baby...... <br><br>

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An elevator, My Bosses Desk with someone else!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The ultimate pretty boy George Clooney!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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