Our lives are full of peral choices. We choose who we are, who we become, who we love, whom we hate. We decide our days, our nights, our friends, our companions. We are in control of our lives. But sometimes, just sometimes, its good not to be in control..... I identify with being different, being kinky if you like. Kinky is not a dirty word, its not sexual, its a lifestyle choice. A choice that is different then the hundreds of other around me. I am different, I am a standout, I.... am ME. I have been wondering about kink, been experimenting with it and slowly evolving to having a kinkier side to me. My kinky side is not into overt sexuality, but rather revelling in the lifestyle itself. I enjoy the occassional crossdressing, exhibitionism and nudity. Its a liberating feeling, one that give a new dimension to my regular, humdrum life. I dream about light punishment, female domination and same sex relationships. I am not a full timer or a LTR seeker, nor am a wham-bam-thank-you-mam/sir guy . Relationships are not focussed for me, but have a wider meaning. In real life, I love conversations (and the occassional debate). I am knowledgeable (hey, if you got it, flaunt it), a linguist, a photographer, an artist, a writer, a poet and experimental cook. I have a 'nilla life, which is important for me and hence, am not a prolific poster guy. However, I have an open ear all the time for some good conversation and a cup of steaming mocha.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I am married and don't want any complications that can be avoided. Extramarital affairs add excitement to a relationship

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would love to be with a woman (BBW would be great) who would
dress me up in her lingerie. <br><br>
then I would give her a massage, rim her, lick her and finally
she can have her way with me

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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