[I][B]If u are married or attached...DO NOT contact me. The thing being-I value honesty and integrity. I do not want to be part of those situations. Peek inside...tad heavy/serious/raw, but oh so apt Anais Nin [[COLOR deeppink]I]As soon as I utter a phrase my sincerity dies, becomes a lie whose coldness chills me. Don't say anything, because I see that you understand me, and I am afraid of your understanding. I have such a fear of finding another like myself, and such a desire to find one! I am so utterly lonely, but I also have such a fear that my isolation be broken through, and I no longer be the head and ruler of my universe. I am in great terror of your understanding by which you penetrate into my world; and then I stand revealed and I have to share my kingdom with you.”[/I] [/COLOR] So if you are genuinely single, go ahead, I'm all for giving things a go. Ultimately, who knows...until such time as I'm no longer single I can pretty much do what I want. We here in little old NZ know what a small world we live in. Can do pics-just don't expect any from me here on AFF. Sooo the question maybe...what does this woman want? Trying to answer this succinctly-is a bit of a challenge. I believe there is a lid for every pot...and what's for you wont go by you. The nature of this site, in my mind says get ya knickers off n lets fuck- some of the time that's just crass. BUT, more than I care to admit...it is all I really really want. When, if, and how that might happen-I will be clear in my sentiments. I will treat you with respect and courtesy and I expect the same in return. If im online I'm probably watching my fav group B) ...or reading magazine/blogs[/B][/I]

My Ideal Person Exists in my head...
In my minds eye will be tall, at least 5.11" or over and clean shaven. I'm not big on face fuzz it just doesn't feel good up close n personal. Size wise I like all sorts except at the extreme ends of the continuum. So super super huge, or super super skinny won't excite me.
Tounge skills will though!

Someone honest with strong communication skills. Open minded with good filters. He will have a gsoh, pragmatic but with a sense of adventure.
A man that is respectful of life's limitations without being stupefied by them.