We are a healthy, financially secure, professionally successful, politically progressive, deeply committed, attractive couple looking for a little extra fun and excitement. [B]To men:[/B] He writes: MFM has been very exciting, watching my wife being pleasured by an attractive and capable lover, and I am definitely into “taking turns” or pleasing her together. I have sometimes enjoyed the fluidity of all three bodies touching and pleasing one another, but we absolutely respect others’ boundaries and always talk about this first. She writes: I love flirting and being seductive, the feeling of being desired, the excitement of a new lover, and, especially, the pleasure of feeling a man inside of me. The chance to enjoy this passion while still having this secure relationship with my husband at the same time is wonderful and having sex with two men is amazing! Let’s be open about this issue. I experience the greatest pleasure through intercourse. I greatly enjoy a man who gets firm easily, lasts a long time, and shifts through multiple positions. Other women may put greater emphasis on other forms of pleasure, but please know that this is what I’m looking for. [B]To couples and single women:[/B] He writes: We have not yet included another couple or a single woman, but are eager for that experience. I especially love giving oral sex and would be content for just that and other "soft swap" kinds of intimacy for my half of sharing. Even connecting for intimacy that is less physical such as watching, touching, or kissing can be fun and exciting and we respect others’ limits. She writes: This has been so exciting and pleasurable and has taught me a lot about myself. I expect that connecting with another couple or a single woman will be the next step in this wonderful journey.

My Ideal Person Ideally, you'd be the kind of people we'd otherwise enjoy spending non-sexual time with - interesting, well-educated, politically progressive, non-judgmental, good humored, and easy to get along with. And, of course, we'd especially like it if you are attractive, sexy, and skilled. We are looking for good company, exciting experiences, and physical pleasure.

There are a few things that are such a turn-on that they are "musts" for us to recognize a good match here. These include a thoughtful, well-written profile, open pictures that show what you really look like if you write to us, and communication that indicates that you're sincere, well-adjusted, and interested specifically in us rather than just sending the same message to everyone.

We love traveling and do it often. We are interested, too, in the possibility of an occasional tryst when vacationing.

We always like to have an initial meeting for a drink or something similar just to gauge compatibility and mutual interest, then return to our own corners to talk over whether we want to become physical. Like most people, we are concerned with safety, with disease risk, and with being recognized by others in our community, so we can talk that over when we meet, as well as our desires and exciting fantasies!

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