Update... What I really need right now is a new friend who may be a graphic artist or great with adobe O:-) We could trade you know.. stuff? What do you say to a little romance.. a lot of sex.. a little kink and a great afternoon with moi O:-) A WHOLE NEW YEAR WHAT TO DO WITH IT? First of all please read below possibly saving your valuable time for the girls who are well .. not me O:-) UPDATE: NO one under 38ish.. I don't want to meet and fuck you .. then someone else then you ...(really i dont'!!) Geeze! I want to email and chat and see .. nothing wrong with waiting and seeing. If there is a ping or even a twinge of desire or interest then maybe! I've meet a few who I consider friends but the romantic connection just wasn't there. I'm looking for the impossible I imagine. If I could just share here some of the emails I get!!! Really is it that hard? I'm not that judgemental or picky just I know what i want/need Sort of a prayer you know? Of late I've met some interesting people. Ok one or two O:-) Theres alot of interesting people with much of what I'm looking for but it seems theres always a deal breaker. I've got a few quirks of my own certainly but I am pretty clear in what I want. If you think you might match that please do continue.. if not at my age well you know i'm not likely to change. I have much to offer in return.. trust me there. So to recap.. don't wanna hook up with in minutes of meeting.. don't want to be the (much) older woman .. don't want to be one of many (unless i'm there!) i think i sum up what i want below. P.S. I don't trust grown men who don't love football. However no raiders fans under any circumstances! A girl has to have standards. Just saying....

My Ideal Person Hmm.. Ideal... thats changed over the last few years. I don't respond to people who say no strings.. because i come with a few. I want a friendship/relationship with someone who is married.. attached.. mostly happy .. but has time for me too. I'm married.. mostly happy.. but not in the romance/sexual/wildly happy sort of way. Single guys.. maybe but most likely not. I'd like a really generous .. really nice older (ok I know that is asking too much at my age) person who just wants a happy sex life. I can't have you over.. i dont' want to fool around in your car... or at the park. Crazy i know but i just want someone to spend time with once a week or so exploring each other and having fun. I'd also like to have someone to miss and look forward to. Uncomplicated really good friend would be ideal. I don't want to fall in love but falling in like would be perfect!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
BB King, Robert Cray, Adele, Rascall Flatts, Patsy Cline

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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