I'm probably going to be too honest here, but what the hell. I've had severe depression most of my life that has finally stabilized due to the right drugs and therapy. Unfortunately it took a huge bite out of my social life and now that dating is a possibility for my, I've been told I'm to timid when it comes to showing my interest in women. This is according to some of my female friends, who suggested I try a hook up site rather than a dating sight to learn how to be more aggressive, at least. I am looking for women in the area who are looking for fun and casual sexual activities (just emails, texts, etc works). I am drug and disease free and would like the same. I'm fat, but at least it makes me good for cuddling or if your heat breaks down in the winter, either works. I want you to have fun as well. I've done the alone thing so I'm not just interested in my needs. Yes, I have had sex before 😜 but I might still look new to it sometimes, so feel free to laugh.

My Ideal Person What I Want: Trying to be the nice guy isn’t helping. I’m sick of spammers and scammers. I’m real and I’m looking for a woman to be friends with benefits with, but I’m not ruling out more. By friends I mean someone I can hang out with and chat, watch a movie with, and other things as well as fuck. I don’t see the point of having sex with someone when it’s just about getting off. I want to have fun with you and for you to have fun with me. You’ll get a lot from me, like trust, honestly, loyalty, and a willingness to go down on you. You don’t have to worry if you feel embarrassed because I’ll prove you have nothing to be embarrassed about as long as you remember that there might be times I’m embarrassed too. Just be open about it, it won’t matter since we’re friends.
All that said I’m tired of being walked all over. I used to let it happen all the time because I used to think I was a horrible person that needed to try real hard just to get people to tolerate me. That disease is done controlling my life and now I see I have loads to offer (get it, loads. I’m a comedic genius). So now people will have to prove they’re worth my time.

If you can’t be bothered to write more than “Hi”, “How are you?”, or “what’s up?” don’t bother contacting me. I know it can be a pain to fire off a bunch of messages to see who responds and I don’t expect a novel but I try to write a sentence or two that prove I read someone’s profile. If you can’t manage that, I’ll just assume you’re one of the site’s bots.

If you want me to contact you outside of the site because you don’t want to buy a membership, understand you’ll need to put in a lot more effort to prove you’re not a scammer in your message.

I’m not interested in drama so, if you have someone else, you better be sure that things are cool with them. Couples aren’t my thing, I’m not interested in guys and you’d actually have to really convince me with another girl, believe it or not.

If money or appearances are what really matters to you, please leave me alone. Both are at the bottom of my list on what’s important. A sense of humor is a must though.