Hi there, I'm Rob. 6'1", 220 lbs, brown hair, blue/green eyes. What kind of man am I? I am a man that is confident in his sexuality, yet I am a little shy until I get to know you. What am I looking for? Well, to be honest, I am looking for someone to spend some time with and have some FUN with!. At least initially. I mean you have to kind of get to know each other first, tease out that connection! A mental/intellectual connection will lead to an emotional connection (not an "I'm in love with you" kind of connection) and THAT leads to some smoldering hot sex, burning up the sheets together. Both of us leaving each others embrace reluctantly, but yet that glorious feeling of being exhausted and totally spent. Drained, literally and figuratively! Can you tell I'm a bit of a sapiosexual? ;-) I want someone to go out with, have a good time and see where that leads us. I like to take a lady out, treat her the way a woman should be treated, and then cater to her (our) fantasies behind closed doors. I have learned enough over the years to know that if you (meaning me--the man!) take care of your lady's needs then ANYTHING you get in return you will get what you gave tenfold. I am looking for a woman who compliments me and my perality and is a great conversationalist and an even better kisser--and a GREAT tease. Redheads and women with...um..."huge tracts of land" go to the front of the line! (bonus points if you get that reference!) So, let's meet for lunch or dinner or drinks, with no strings attached. If the chemistry is there, and you are interested we will have no regrets and a load of fun. If you want to take it further, we will see what can happen. But above all, there will be no strings attached when we meet-I'm not talking about FWB here...I mean I will not expect anything. Hope for something--YES! Expect to sleep with you? No. I need you to be confortable...If I sound like I am the man you are looking for, then PLEASE!! Drop me a line. I look forward to meeting you and talking more with you.

My Ideal Person An open minded lady. Someone who isn't afraid of a little experimentation (pain does NOT equal pleasure in my book, unless you want to be spanked! ) The lady I am looking for is classy, not trashy...yet behind closed doors she is a wild, wanton woman. You should be able to dress up or down, depending on the occasion. Sexy, attractive and very sexual is the kind of lady I am looking for.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Wouldn't be a fantasy if I did! Write to me, and maybe I'll discuss it with you, and you alone! :)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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