I have been in the style a few years where I have met some good people who are great friends. Sure I am here for sex......aren't we all to some degree if honest.....Duh?....LOL. The main objective first is to make a friend(s) first. Somebody to go out with and share good times with. It could be a concert, a ball game, shopping, going out for a meal, or just staying home to play on jigsaw puzzles, cards, or NAKED twister........LOL. At my age...that could be more fun for you to watch than me to do it......lol. Seriously, I just enjoy having a good time. I am public in my profession so I must be cautious, and hoping it is understandable where discretion is a must. I can be serious, and I can be funny. I love to laugh and have fun, and hope to meet those who are the same. Honesty and trust are the main objectives that I give and want in return. I dislike downers and people who are negative.......So don't be......:). I am looking for a partner or couple who knows how to have fun and make it a LTR. Not looking for one nighters. I wish to develop a connection with those who can respect that aspect. Enjoy laid back couples and ladies who just let things happen. Don't like pushy or forceful people. I am here for fun, you should be too. Share a dinner, a movie, and see what happens from there. Please be sincere and honest, and I will be as well. Giving pleasure is the ultimate to another to see their smile or hear their moan within the seduction. Enjoy receiving and giving oral to a woman is the ultimate. Caressing and slow play is enjoyable to get the juices flowing. Softness and understanding to make a good connection. I learned years ago that insure the lady is pleasured first, and generally the guy will have his as well. Making a woman happy first with pleasure was something I was taught by a special lady thirty years as I was introduced to the style. Love to ride and be rode. Favorite position is doggy, where it is the best for deeper and best penetration for the pleasure of both.......But, am into other positions that suit the art of play. I am open to anything that is safe play. I do require discretion, with what I do for a living. It is public, and therefore I must always be cautious, where it can mean it is bad for business. Gals you must have hubby's permission to play. No secrets from spouse. It isn't fair, where he is the main player in your life. I am the secondary pleasure pack of fun. I have been there and done that too many times in the past where it only means trouble otherwise. I do respect a couples realtionship, where it would not be a true friendship otherwise. I am told that I am well hung and thick by other's but wish not to be arrogant with the thought. To me I am a guy who enjoys the art of sex where it started in college with a good teacher who taught me how to be a gentlemen first, and be a good lover with the art. Bless her soul. You are free to ask away anything you may wish. I assure you that I have heard most in request. I am straight in my preference, but do not have any issue with threesomes, or foursomes. Again, it is about respect. And, I do respect all limits, and wish for the same in return. I enjoy pony play, candlewax, bondage, blindfolds, mask and much more. Again, feel free to ask.

My Ideal Person Honest, and laid back friends. Enjoy meeting couples and sharing. A lady who enjoys oral and likes spend time having good long term fun. NO ONE NIGHTERS, that is not what I am looking for.

Partner(s) must be clean and safe. NO druggies are desired. If you have emotional setbacks or issues, please leave them at door, or please see if you can get on Dr. Phil's Show to work them out.......LOL. You would be surprised how many people run from their problems to openly make new one's. So, in case I was not clear, I am not Dr. Phil......(lol).

No drama here in other words.

It is about having a stress-free time of fun. It is that simple.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ColdPlay, Celtic Woman, Keith Urban, Trace Adkins, Billy
Joel, Foreigner, Rod Stewart,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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