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notbender2 52 M
4  Articles
Is it rude to say "No Thanks"?   9/27/2016

I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank you" and follow it with a full stop.

In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at "no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will get used to it.

You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you." Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
being polite   9/22/2016

we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...

this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not - say no, no thanks or not my type...

I understand that this refers mainly to responses from women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further bother the ladies on this ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Crying through the whole first date? No.   9/21/2016

Take it from me, if you are going to cry for the whole first date, you're not going to get a second one. It happened to me. I met a lady, and she balled for the whole hour long date. I'm a kind person, so i tried to reassure her and I didn't run away. But, needless to say, she was in no place to be dating. She really needed to work some things out. I get it, it can be really lonely when you ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
jrhammer44224 42 M
2  Articles
Personal Preference versus Racism   9/19/2016

I'm all about equality in life, every human being has a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness. I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people approach their ethical practices towards others, but it is behavior that transcends race and creed.

That being said, I was recently approached on another site by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...


3 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Tea compared to sex   9/17/2016

If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time you are together with this person.

The same goes with sex.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
nerdygirl721 34 F
2  Articles
Sorry, Ill have to decline   9/8/2016

I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at least there is still fun to be had.


2 Comments, 43 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
Lostinhorn 34 M
2  Articles
How to say no thanks   8/25/2016

Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or something like that. Remember they are people too.


4 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
ohmamma1 31 M
2  Articles
what happened?   8/25/2016

you know it really bites when you're trying to just say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time and points trying to get a message through to the person and not understanding why this isn't working?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
morningstretcher 49 M
1  Article
Fake Profile Pics   8/25/2016

Don't you dislike it when the person you're chatting or planning on seeing is really lying about themselves. Why? Just be real.


2 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Averageguy4154 30 M
2  Articles
What a great idea   8/25/2016

It would be amazing if people could just say no thanks. Makes denial easier, and less wondering on both sides.


3 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Neil1980s 32 M
1  Article
Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"?   8/23/2016

With so many people from all over the world on this site, it's fair to say you'll find someone you're interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's also fairly likely that that person may not be interested in meeting you, for whatever reason.

That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you at last reply to it, if only to ...


5 Comments, 63 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
An older man and the younger woman .....   8/23/2016

Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date.

So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I am now called a pervert or creepy guy.

Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many people in ...



9 Comments, 242 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
JR20163 40 M
5  Articles
Is it that hard to say no thanks?   8/23/2016

Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response just saying your not interested?


3 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
Ok   7/22/2016

How come this concept is so hard for people to follow? I understand when you have to many messages to actually follow but I am sure not every woman is flooded with messages. How hard would it be to say no thanks?


2 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
mandy4you2use 71 F
6  Articles
i wanted to but?   7/22/2016

after letting the very have me one of them rang my phone at 9 pm a few nights later and ask to come to my home, I was unsure as to tell him where I lived but as I was feeling randy I gave him my address, I raced to shower before he arrived as I wanted to be nice and fresh for what I hoped would come, when the bell rang I couldn't wait to open the door even though I was naked as I pulled it open ...


8 Comments, 596 Views, 41 Votes ,6.69 Score
varun_79595 44 M
2  Articles
How to eat PUSSY   7/14/2016

Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Pat1qaz 47 M
1  Article
Don't Ignore, just say what you think!   7/3/2016

Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks, but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!


2 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Wantodouto123 58 M
1  Article
Do you have morals!   6/22/2016

OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago. I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway I made my way to the bathroom when ...


3 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
toungeman4woman 68 M
7  Articles
changes on One Night Stand Girls   6/22/2016

So about three days ago One Night Stand Girls was at it again change the cam vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here new management or what


1 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
when you hear no thanks?   6/18/2016

When you hear no thanks


4 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
psbiguy 64 M
3  Articles
Whats the best way to say not interested.   5/21/2016

I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude, just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.


1 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
SeanTheDon3 27 M
10  Articles
Home   5/9/2016

I'm bored and want points


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
jacobmille565565 34 M
3  Articles
They get there and they aren't what you expected   5/2/2016

Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone from One Night Stand Girls over with adult fun in mind only to find they are not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe there was something that just turned you off when they finally got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?


6 Comments, 157 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
TheOnlyHotspot 42 C
5  Articles
I might be too blunt   5/1/2016

If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm sorry but it's not happening

NO THANKS


2 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
lookin4funinBC9 58 M
2  Articles
At least say No!   3/8/2016

Just wish if you contact someone they would say No! Saying nothing is worse.


9 Comments, 105 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
TwoPlusOne4Funnn 35 C
1  Article
whoa can we meet you before your genitals   3/8/2016

Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything about you yet...immediate turn off


5 Comments, 45 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
Ways to not say "no"   2/25/2016

If you send someone a friend request and your YIM and then suddenly start ignoring all messages, even those that say "Hey, it's ok if you are not interested, JUST LET ME KNOW, " that is rude. Please just say "Sorry, I am really not interested in pursuing anything further with you." Believe me, most people on here are mature enough to say in response, "OK, good luck, " and move on to the next ...


11 Comments, 70 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
charlesmorgan101 53 M
2  Articles
You have to say what you mean....   2/18/2016

There are some people who think that "no" is the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them. Some people believe if you say "no" you will lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put you in a poor position.

So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...


3 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
"No Gracias"   2/15/2016

There was one time where the person said please do me so hard and I said no.


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
sumith00007 33 M
1  Article
Ass lick   2/10/2016

Why girl ass makes man horny..


3 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score