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nice always wanted to be strapped in
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8/22/2019 8:29 am |
I have tried to meet others on here . When I came time to meet they disappeared. Only met 2 on here in 3 yaers
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I've never been stood up, but been ghosted a few times.. very annoying, when you think you got on well...etc etc
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I have had just as many successful meets as I have had no-shows. I myself only canceled one meet at the last minute (unavoidable). It is all depended on time, moments and the parties involved.
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Have had several where we've exchanged numbers, texted for a bit, talked about meeting and then they just stop responding to messages with no explanation. Had one person that I talked to for weeks while he was out of town working and we planned to meet when he got back to town. He texted the morning he was on his way home, texted when he stopped for gas and then i didn't hear anything else from him and still haven't heard anything else since. Its very irritating.
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I've been stood up or ghosted so many times, I'm actually surprised when they do show up to a meeting. Sorry state of affairs... But on a brighter note, either way I have a nice night out. Stay positive, my friends.
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Last minute cancellations seem quite routine. Personally I make it a point to show up on time at arranged meeting place after a confirmation. I have been told many times by others how much they appreciate that.
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Haven't been stood up. But based on others experiences I handle making a date differently than those who complain. I set a date by talking (NOT text etc) on the phone and verifying the sincerity of the woman I am talking to. When asked most people who have complained don't talk (mostly text etc) - that is a significantly different thing. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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8/22/2019 8:55 am |
I get ghosted a lot. It’s honestly not a huge deal. I’d rather someone no show if they’re not totally interested in the things I wanna do
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8/22/2019 9:29 am |
My experiences have all been a desire to meet/hook up with no follow through and a plethora of excuses to go with it all.
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Same. All talk, no action...
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Absolutely despise someone disappearing after setting, confirming and then not showing
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I've been on this site for 8 years, met my share of decent men and have never been stood up. I credit taking weeks getting to know the person online and seeking ongoing friends with benefits type relationships over quick hookup meets.
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More times than I can count sadly to all scenarios above.
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Same, u start texting and messaging, and then the other person stop, I have met some ladies. Green eye, friend me so we can chat
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All the time
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Everything except 1 and 5 have happened to me. I find it best to apply a one-strike policy to these rude people.
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Has common courtesy gone out the window ... No. But "Common" interaction has gone out the window. Finding someone on the internet, and going to meet them , for some people, can be unnerving. should we lower our standards, ... What were your standards to begin with? How many of you have faced some level of being 'stood-up' on this site? ... No big deal. That happens. Expect it, or don't play on dating sites. Getting stood up by people whom you have interacted with in real life [not on the internet] is a far worse "Standup" than meeting with a stranger. Complain about that one.
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8/22/2019 11:42 am |
It's not what I expected on here
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Nope... Haven't been stood up... Unfortunately... I kinda changed plans on someone here... (unavoidable) and THEY perceived it as - being stood up. Oh well... 😊 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I have been ghosted a few times and I have made sudden change of meeting arrangements but I try to always follow through, even if it's at a later date.
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i would have to say its between 1 and 5 where u plan and just loose contact with the person or they wanna try new thing they wanna meet ppl wanna have fun but nothing can make them do a real meet, once ppl serious the meet happens
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8/22/2019 6:48 pm |
Heck, people on this site in my area dont even act like they want to have fun!! I think most women are on here to catch a cheating husband or boyfriend. Had a ton of men proposition things, but not into that.
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Well, so far i had not experience any "ghosted out"/stood up"....for the first meet up. If my first meet up is good and there are chemistry, of cos there will be followed up or a more detailed 2nd meet up & etc.....if it is no good, then just be Text friends.
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Sadly very few of this amazing site's clientelle is based around here my lady ... That being said, an occasional meeting with a foreign lady visiting for vacations is pretty much the alternative I can't say I've been stood up very often,but then again it required quite a bit of interaction or trust to cultivate that relationship And generally the geist is: It's the internet - what could you expect ? Cheers - P
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It happens all the time!!!
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8/25/2019 2:47 pm |
Yes it's happen. Frustrating, but I just move on.
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8/26/2019 5:03 am |
The problem with this poll is it only allows one choice. Unfortunately over my years on One Night Stand Girls I have experienced all of the choices.
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I've had it with people who say let's meet and then never show up
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My experience has been multiple making of plans to meet or hookup and being either ghosted or cancelled. I don't know what is wrong with people actually doing what they say they are going to. In many of the cases I believe them to be fake profiles or scammers.
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9/3/2019 9:19 am |
I haven't met anyone on here..it's so frustrating!! needsumluvn
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