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I tend to agree with most of what you wrote, but mostly have to say that last paragraph is bang on!
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I read you but do not often leave comments. Kindness matters and so do friends. and I send you hugs in the bleary season- you make total sense (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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the Bible says that two are better than one. i'm not going to debate the biblical regarding that because i'm just not. for those that are brave enough to 'forever' join themselves to another you do wish them all the love n' happiness in the world. however, i've seen the relationships of many a married friend go down in flames. and not to sound cynical but when i see married friends divorcing, i think what a waste of time that was. and even the gov't finds the financial merit in people being married, giving out a larger tax deduction to those that say the "i do". as a single person, i find that most unfair and discriminatory. that being said, i find it even more unfair for a person to deny themselves a chance at finding their own brand of happiness. life's terrain in rough n' tough and there is no good reason to try and navigate it all alone. this will sound like a total cliché but if you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with.
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1/30/2019 11:02 am |
Definitions of attachment and "love" are changing. We are moving from a binary view of things to an acceptance of something more fluid. I remember that great American genius Marvin Gaye once said something to the effect that love is love and sex is sex and if you can merge the two you are that much better off. Seems to be you have the insight, intelligence and questioning mind that will always cause you to see the dialectic. That said, keep writing and questioning and seeking...
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And that is why I will never marry again, and probably not move in with any woman I am serious with. I was married once, and the day to day grind, children, and obligations take the magic out of love. Something dies in the relationship. Love should grow... not whither. Thoughts from the Garden...
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