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I dont share my primary phone number with a gal until I meet her in person. I do have a backup phone that I check daily for messages & calls, but most are spam, and so are not returned, and if a gal insists, I will give her that one. I have had many women give me phone #s, addresses, even full names after just a few contacts. I always wonder at thos women that wish to have a 1st contact in person in their home tho, what the hell is wrong with them? I would NEVER do that !!!!
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10/11/2018 11:56 am |
No, no phone numbers until we meet face to face. No real need to and if it's not right then it's much cleaner to part way. A second meet or the slim odds we bump uglies on the first meet then I'm happy to share it. Providing things went well which so far so good in that area.
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I have thought about getting a burner phone just for this site only.
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Yep... I've k i k ed before a call. That works. But I wouldn't call me either... Eeeee.... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I'll use Kick from time to time. I usually wait for a bit of chats to see where it's going, before I give anyone my phone number. Since I've been back on the site, I've given my number to two ladies that I haven't met. One I regret..and use as a reminder. The other I don't regret a bit. She's a wonderful lady. For women, I'd think caution would rule the day. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Oh hun I totally agree with you here, I get first time emails with numbers. And I am like seriously I am going to call someone I don't know.. I don't think so, it gets deleted. There has to be some times to get to know someone, and make sure there is some kind of chemistry there.. I hope you enjoy your Thursday..
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10/11/2018 1:09 pm |
Short answer, absolutely not. I get messages from supposedly young women inviting me to text message them. I'm oldish and less than desirable but if "she" has my phone number I'm open for all sorts of ads and spam calls. I have a drug dealer phone (as my kids call it) that I occasionally give out but that from people I talked to from Craigslist. I haven't met anyone from here who I thought was that trustworthy.
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Yesterday was National World Mental Health Day... As a leading candidate for any clinical study out there - I have managed to have conversations with myself. They've lead nowhere - so I hung up on myself. Btw, back in the day with the rotary phone there was a trick to use so that you COULD call yourself. Probably before your time... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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10/11/2018 1:59 pm |
i would never give my number on a site like tis.never know who is that person your chatting with and would not accept any also, with all thats happening in the world today!!
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I usually try to move over to email first then if it's good I'll suggest a call. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I never give out my phone number and I have a special email site just for contacts from here. You need to protect yourself first. Gender is a non-factor in taking care of your safety (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I never give out my phone number until I have met several times in person. I also have a separate email account just for messages from this site. You are responsible for your own safety- think about it (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Ya know, sometimes communications between men and women seem like smoke signals . . . on a windy day. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Always meet , before passing over phone numbers. Nobody is going to develop trust on the internet/skype, or talking on a phone without meeting first.
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Hi Wonder167. thanks for posting this "phone number" topic. Recently, a blogger that reads me, sent me a request for my phone number. I was uncomfortable sharing it with her... I've shared my contact information when it made sense to me... Perhaps, my natural progression is: "IM"; "email"; other site, and other options. So, yes, I feel the same way that you do about that. Now, I don't think she is disingenuous or evil, it's just that "space" thing for me... I respect people's space... the word "no"... and, the entire journey... I'm not here for the "hit & run"... thanks, again for posting... reminded me of this one... Niia - "Telephone" I love it when you text me first Love it a little too much I've been sitting here Impatiently Waiting on a call from you Said you'd call me when you got home Well I guess you lied Dial my number baby, it's easy to find I'll call you back if I'm not there in time Oh there's pressure And pain To you it is always the same Go on and use me Use me up Keep playing this telephone game I wait for your call Because my line's wide open Makes no sense at all You just keep me holding Da da da da da DA Yeah, my lines wide open Da da da da DA You just keep me holding... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I've had quite a few guys offer me their numbers to text or call. However, I'd rather arrange the initial meeting through this site. Despite its bad , I've managed fine with arranging meetings via IM.
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i think we should put out so the other members can prank call them...if they are stupid enough to give out their personal information on the first contact, they deserve to get annoyed...haha...
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No phone number, until there is a lot of information exchanged on the crappy site included IM or messenger. these sites with included phone number for call or text is like playing Russian roulette with your life.. not sure I would even allow one of my cloned g-mail or y-mail email addresses out.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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10/18/2018 2:05 pm |
We had At&T for several years and paid around $85 a month now we have Consumer Cellular and Par around $45 a month and both phone services charge $15 for an extra line
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I agree with you calling some you don't know is unconfortable
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kik is the way to go and to verify the person with an actual live camera shot which is marked as "camera". Anything less is a lie. phone #s after you meet and mutually agree.
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Yea. Giving personal contact info is best done in stages. Ki.ck then cell. Also you can adjust how your number/name appears on someone's phone. No need for them to have immediate access to your last name.
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I've had people give me theirs quickly, but I'm not comfy either. I never do. It's hard, though, when the IM on here is so bad.
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10/26/2018 12:27 pm |
I like cam 2 cam and then if all is well I don't mind exchanging phone numbers.
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I am very cautious when finally giving out a number.
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10/31/2018 9:11 pm |
I never give out my number until I actually know someone.
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11/1/2018 3:35 am |
I wouldn't contact someone who sends their phone number right off the bat like that. I wouldn't send mine until I knew the person better.
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