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Looks like he just avoided a psycho wife. He sounds mature, she sounds juvenile. He made the right decision.
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At the risk of sounding rude, with that type of behavior she's anything but sweet, kind and caring. I understand that's she's hurt and probably in shock, but yes, her actions mark her as very immature and not ready for the commitment she was about to make. There is no excuse for the things she did, especially hitting him. He's lucky they're not getting married!
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There are people like that! When they are faced with the reality they show up! He did very well! It was sincere and is not to be criticized for that! Maybe if everyone were like there were so many divorces as after 2/3 years of marriage! She unfortunately only showed that it is an authentic child!
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it is better that they broke up now, for him, it may have saved his life
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why would she be upset - I would think she would want to know he's not ready or not the one now not 20 years down the road with kids involved at least she only ruined a ring and a dress not the lives of some young children I think she wasn't ready also but was too caught up in the celebrity and attention that a wedding brings - just a childish reaction - she hurt no one but herself
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5/29/2016 3:29 pm |
Good for Him,,They are too young to get married..and I think He just found out what a Bitch She can be.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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You kind of answered your own question. neither of them was mature enough to sustain a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, we have this odd societal dynamic where for a lot of women, the wedding ring is the One Ring to Rule The All and not completing the journey is seen as abject failure. (What kind of shitty way is that to run a society. Thanks Disney!) Getting dumped so close is not just painful but it's also pretty damned embarrassing; you know damn well that people are whispering their own theories about what triggered him to back out. One girl might have gotten depressed and withdrawn to her room, another might have fucked any huan that crossed her path, and yet another may have gone a drug nd booz fueled binge. Your daughter's friend just so happens to turn her anger outward. I hope everything works out best for both kids.
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Here is the thing. Technically I am for marriage. But with the way things are. - Taking religious and legal purposes (which everything can almost be done without marriage/common laws, etc). --- It would be interesting to have women explain 'WHY' a man would want to get married these days. There is no perks. Especially since there is more perks for the women in the long run and legal run. Heck, even today, the Feminist are trying to take away the 'Man Cave'. And on a side note. Having a large wedding ceremony, or getting in debt; is not a way to start off a wedding. Seems this event was more about impression someone. And considering that 'if' they already have been living together. At this point, heck with tradition at this point. ...lol
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And another thing. If she did this out in the open. It makes you wonder if this type of thing was going on behind closed doors. Or other such things. - And maybe he didn't address it. But he had enough to do something before he got in totally.
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